Hello Beautiful People!
What’s next on my agenda? Well, I’ve been scoping out races happening all over the world. So don’t be surprised if you see me popping up in your neck of the woods soon, sneakers laced and ready to roll! 🌍👟
As you know, last week I completed my first-ever 10K, and yes, I’m still riding that high because it was absolutely amazing. What stood out the most wasn’t just crossing the finish line but the camaraderie and pure joy shared among women from every walk of life. No cattiness, no drama—just an ocean of smiles, cheers, and genuine support. When I had to leave the ladies I started with to meet the first-lap cutoff, they didn’t hesitate to cheer me on and even captured my victory lap on video. Talk about women empowering women!
Reflecting on this journey, I’m reminded of a question my mentor used to ask me in my mid-thirties: “Who would you be without your trauma?” Back then, I struggled to answer. I was still tangled in the weeds of pain, bad experiences, and the stories I carried like a heavy suitcase. But after years of intentional healing and self-discovery, I can now say that the person I am without the baggage is a healthier, happier version of myself.
I’m more confident. Calmer. Unmoved by unnecessary drama or even my own emotions (most days—I’m still human, y’all!). Years ago, a personality test revealed I’m equally analytical and creative, split straight down the middle. But it’s the healing process that’s allowed both sides of me to fully flourish.
Like First Lady Michelle Obama, I’m still becoming.
Every day, I’m shedding old skin and standing more firmly in my truth. It’s like walking or riding a bike for the first time—I see the world with new eyes, a stronger stride, and a deeper sense of purpose. The difference? I no longer feel like I need to save the world. I show up in my power and truth as a loving, empathetic coach and peer supporter, walking alongside others on their journey of self-discovery.
This year, especially as I prepare to celebrate my 50th (1975, BABY! 🎉), I’m focused on soaking in the beauty of this world and letting go of the traumas and dramas of both the past and the present. I’m stepping into this season of my life with so much gratitude for how far I’ve come. The journey hasn’t been easy, but every step has been worth it. This is my year to not only celebrate who I’ve become but to fully embrace the beauty of life and everything it has to offer.
This milestone year is about more than the miles I run or the places I visit—it’s about celebrating the strength, love, and purpose that have carried me to this point. Turning 50 feels like a superpower, and I’m ready to use it to uplift, encourage, and inspire others to embrace their own journeys. Let’s make this year—and every year—a celebration of becoming!
So, here’s to more races, more growth, and more moments of joy. To stepping boldly into our truths, embracing our superpowers, and lifting each other up along the way. Let’s keep becoming together.
What’s one step you’re taking today to shed old baggage and step into your truth?
With love, laughter, and gratitude,
Stacie J. Whitaker-Harris
Here's me crossing the She Power 10K finish line:
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