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Hi, I’m Stacie J. Whitaker-Harris—a published author, certified recovery and peer support specialist, mindfulness coach, and artist. My journey has been shaped by over 20 years of writing, storytelling, and community advocacy. From publishing essays and poems as a middle schooler to contributing to university newspapers and appearing in local news, writing has always been my passion.

As a woman of faith with a Master’s in Law (business focus) and a Bachelor’s in Nonprofit Management, I am committed to empowering others through my words, art, and coaching. In 2020, I discovered my love for painting, which began as a form of therapy and blossomed into a creative outlet, with many pieces sold and displayed in local contests. My work reflects a dedication to healing, growth, and honoring the God-given potential in all of us.

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Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Living Your Life with Purpose...

 “...On Purpose for God’s Intended Purpose”
Setting Goals to Live Your Fullest Purpose-filled Life
We all were created with & for very real and intentional purpose or for some purposes.  Do you know what your purpose is?  Are you operating in that purpose?
Defining Purpose
Purpose (noun) has several meanings
1.       (Your) reason for existence
Why are you here?  Do you understand your reason for existing?
2.       Desired effect (the goal or intended outcome of something)
When God created YOU He anticipated a desired effect.  In other words, He had a goal or intended outcome for your life.  (Think about it)
Knowing your purpose or learning your purpose is not enough by itself.  You must be DETERMINED to LIVE with purpose, on purpose for the intent that you were created by acting with purpose. 
3.       Determination is to intend or to determine to do something
Determination is also the desire or the resolve necessary to accomplish a goal
Well, what is a goal?
1.       A target area (a place or space that one must go to acquire a desired result)
2.       Focal point (a distant place or space you see ahead and aim to reach by all means necessary)
3.       Successful end of a plan created to obtain a specific outcome
To live with purpose, on purpose, for God’s intended purpose requires:
1.       Knowing your purpose
2.       Accepting your purpose
3.       Operating, Functioning & Living in your purpose
Knowing, Accepting, Operating, Functioning and Living in your purpose all lead to a Purpose-filled life!
However, they all involve “Acting” which requires you to DO something.  Acting requires movement from you.  In this instance, purpose becomes a transitive verb.  It (purpose) becomes action.
Don’t just exist (be a bump on a log…moving through life routinely). 
Don’t let life or outward circumstances dictate the purpose of your life.
Be intentional to search yourself each day.  What are you searching for?  You are looking for those things that are in your heart.  What makes you happy?  What brings you joy?  What brings you excitement?  What brings you peace?  What brings you satisfaction?  What makes you feel that you are fulfilling your purpose?
Is it your job?  Is it serving others? Is it creating (art, songs, music, stories, plays, sewing, knitting, painting, collecting cars, riding motorcycles, cleaning, typing, working with children, playing the piano, cooking, planning other people’s special occasions…and the list goes on and on)
Whatever it is, your heart knows your purpose even if you try to deny it.  Your heart is connected to your purpose.  Your purpose is connected to God.  Let your heart lead you to your purpose.  Your purpose will always lead you to God.
Operating in your purpose requires you to plan and planning means setting goals and setting goals takes patience, persistence and perseverance.  Don’t allow a time table, a chart, doubt, fear, insecurities, attitude, perception, your thoughts or anyone else’s thoughts to deter you from planning to live out each day with purpose, on purpose for God’s intended purpose. 
Set a goal right now to start living your purpose TODAY!!!

Roses are Red,
Violets are Blue,
I have Purpose,
And so do YOU!
Be Blessed!
Stacie J. Whitaker-Harris
Minister of The Gospel, Poet, Author, Vocalist, Inspirationalist & Advocate for Social Equality 

5 comments:

  1. I loved this...it's so true, u have 2 be pro-active 2 get results. Checkout I Have A Mission: By John Henry http://25champ.blogspot.com/2010/07/i-have-mission-by-john-henry.html

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  2. This is so deep Queen...God is really using you! You are instrumental through your service, writing, and voice. The purpose within you WILL INSPIRE OTHERS TO LIVE IN THEIR PURPOSE. How beautiful is that??? To beautiful to begin to explain...keep your light charged!

    Peace and Blessings
    Shanelle

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  3. @25champ: Peace King! The post is absolutely GOD! Thank you for sharing

    @I Am My sisters Keeper: Peace Queen. Push~~Pull, Cry~~Laugh, Win~~Lose...No matter, I'm here with you and I know God sent you to be here with me!!! PURPOSE sounds like friendship, sisterhood, partnership, love...and I can keep going on and on!!!

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  4. You are listening Stacie and with that gift/talent the word of GOD/LOVE will spread ten fold.

    Speak on mighty woman of GOD speak on!

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  5. Excellent post, Stacie. If you don't mind, I'm gonna use your purpose definition in a powerpoint to show in a management class of master's degree, at university. Thanks, Stacie,for your words. Jorge

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